The bird’s rhythmic sounds rent the air,
The crowing of the cock woke the humans,
I was getting up when I saw it,
I screamt out of sheer anguish,
I stared at her perplexed,
She saw it then and smiled,
I could not hold back the tears,
Grandpa drank Chang’aa over and over,
Pappa roasted the meat in the afternoon.
To get that which he had promised,
Visitors filled our homestead,
Everyone danced and sang to the music,
I remained in my room distraught.
My favourite Cousin Joy at her side,
Flower,she called me by my nickname,
“ A man has sought your hand in marriage”,
Festivities lasted a month,
Joyous glances I received wherever I passed,
I had mixed reactions I was too young,
Joy said he was handsome I should accept.
Accept I did, the ceremony was grand,
Pappa received seven cows and three goats,
Within months I was heavy with child,
I felt so tired and consumed,
He kept his word and treated me well.
The pain excruciating, but his handsome face made me
smile.
He looked so much like him,
The family celebrated of their good fortune,
Sadly, it lasted only a week,
Then he was gone, far to the wind,
I cried all day and night,
I was clensed and purified by the healer,
Ancestors beseeched to provide healing,
My husband was quiet for a very long time,
He took care of me this time round,
He had his sister cook when I could not,
It came and I anxiously waited.
Her tiny hands clang to my finger,
After a month, they proclaimed she would last.
My daughter came home with her suitor.
The memories are still fresh,
The children make it worthwhile,
Am lucky to have made it,
Many girls’ suffer because of traditions.
Young naïve and innocent,
Harsh and cruel tradition,
Robs them of their childhood and youth,
They learn to carry heavy burdens too early.
Life has been generous to me,
Sadly my husband is not around,
As he passed away a few years back.
I advocate for young girls,
To study and have a career,
For life is short and must be lived well.
“Grandma, Mama needs you”,
I must rush to help deliver my 10th
grandchild,
I smile for am at peace now, the happiest of them
all.
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